Archive for November, 2009

Responding to Criticism

Friday, November 20th, 2009

I love to follow the Blog of Tullian Tchividjian, who is Pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church in Fort Lauderdale (www.crpc.org/blog/) . Recently he had to deal with criticism from some members of his congregation, who did not like his style. His response, in this extract from his blog, is one of the best I have read. I would echo it from my own experience..

As many of you know, my family and I were recently faced with the painful challenge of how to handle public criticism. It forced me to carefully think through how the gospel should inform and shape our response to public, personal attack.

Well, the other day I found great help (and healing) from Carl Trueman’s thoughts on how Christian’s should respond if they are criticized or defamed (specifically on the web). His gospel-drenched insights are right on the money:

The answer is simple: for myself, I do not believe that it is appropriate that I spend my time defending my name. My name is nothing—who really cares about it? And I am not called to waste precious hours and energy in fighting off every person with a laptop who wants to have a pop at me. As a Christian, I am not meant to engage in self-justification any more than self-promotion; I am called rather to defend the name of Christ; and, to be honest, I have yet to see a criticism of me, true or untrue, to which I could justifiably respond on the grounds that it was Christ’s honour, and not simply my ego, which was being damaged. I am called to spend my time in being a husband, a father, a minister in my denomination, a member of my church, a good friend to those around me, and a conscientious employee. These things, these people, these locations and contexts, are to shape my priorities and my allocation of time. Hitting back in anger at those who, justly or unjustly, do not like me and for some reason think the world needs to know what they think of me is no part of my God-given vocation. God will look after my reputation if needs be; He has given me other work to do.

 

Think out of the Box

Saturday, November 14th, 2009

When talking with people who have dismissed faith, as we know it in Christ, I find that they have boxed themselves into a world that is very small. When tragedy occurs: death, sickness, or grief, they have nowhere to go except into despair. Life in a materialistic box is a dark and confining existence. I shared with such a person John Bunyan’s description in his classic work, Pilgrim’s Progress, of falling into the hands of Giant Despair, who confines Pilgrim and his friend Hopeful into the dungeon of Doubting Castle. He admitted that it described his condition accurately.

 

Science does not have to be in conflict with reasonable faith. Faith goes beyond what science can prove. Even the scientist has a theory which has to be tested before it can be accepted as fact. Science acts on faith when it tests hypotheses. The spirit of exploration and experimentation is akin to the exercise of faith. Failure to consider new knowledge would be obscurantist, the unwillingness to be open to innovation and discovery. The world is a much bigger reality than we can comprehend. There is so much we do not know. It would be wise for us to be humble in the light of our ignorance. No one can prove what happened at the beginning of the world. None of us was there to take minutes. Therefore we should be open to the mystery of the origins of life. That mystery may well include its cause, the Author of all things.

           

Bede Griffith, once wrote, “Scientific materialism in the modern world is the precise counterpart of pagan idolatry in the ancient world; it is the substitution of appearance for reality. For science as such is only concerned for phenomena, that is, with things as they appear to the senses: its function is to account for the appearance of things. But of the reality which underlies the appearance, of the real nature of things, science can give us no knowledge at all. We only begin to awake to reality when we realize that the material world, the world of space and time, as it appears to our senses, is nothing but a sign and a symbol of a mystery which transcends it.”

           

Dr Donald Mackay of Keele University called this way of thinking, “nothing buttery”! It is a form of reductionism, reducing the world, or our understanding of it, to the categories of our understanding. Such small mindedness reduces men and women, who are made just a “little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned with glory and honor” (Psalm 8) to biological specimens who live in a little box and know nothing of the rest of creation. The Scriptures will have none of this. For “faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see. By faith we understand that the universe was formed at God’s command, so that what was seen was not made out of what was visible.” (Hebrews 11:1,2)

Get A Life

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

“How is your devotional life?” I asked. Startled, he sat up and answered, “What do you mean?” “I mean your daily time with the Lord; your meditation on Scripture and prayer.” He was speechless. It turned out that he had no devotional life. There was no time in his day when he read a portion of the Bible or prayed. Yet, he was in church for worship every Sunday. I told him that he needed a daily devotional life as much as he needed a social life, or daily exercise, or regular meals. Imagine trying to survive on one meal a week?  

           

I am constantly amazed at all those who consider themselves Christians, who do not cultivate their relationship with the Lord with a daily devotional time. How can we hope to experience a satisfactory relationship with anyone if we do not converse on a daily basis? Reading the Bible is listening to God’s Spirit talking to us. Praying is simply talking to God about our concerns, and giving thanks and praise.

           

I encouraged my friend to use one of the devotionals our Chapel provides. For fifty-five years I have been using Bible Reading notes from Scripture Union in my daily devotional time. They provide two different resources: Encounter with God, for mature Bible students, and Discovery for beginners. They are issued four times a year. You can order them from www.scriptureunion.org.

           

You can devote as much time as you like to your devotional time. I read and reflect for an hour, and then go for a walk and pray for another hour. I find that I need that time every day for solitude and to deepen my relationship with God. You may not need all that time. But whatever time you set aside will be profitable.

           

Jesus gives us an example in his own daily life. “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.” (Mark 1:35) He recognized that, in his busy life of giving out to others, he needed time to be spiritually replenished. If he needed it, then how much more do we?

           

So, I say to you: Get a life! That is, a devotional life. Don’t be a mile wide and an inch deep spiritually. Spend time in the Word and in prayer. You will find yourself enriched beyond measure.